What Women Really Want

I was listening to the XM radio station Oprah and Friends the other day and Rabbi Shmuley was on telling men what it is that women want. Rabbi Shmuley said that he has encountered many men who come to him because their marriage is falling apart. The men feel that they give and give but that their wives are never satisfied. Rabbi Shmuley says that he can speak both man and woman so he is here to tell the men what women want.

Rabbi Shmuley's advice was that women want to be the sun, the center of their man's world. He goes on to say that we are all a bit insecure about our looks. That we grow up being cute and told we are so cute and as we age and lose our beauty we become insecure. We need our man to show us that we are the most important and only thing he needs. I say BULL SHIT. To read or listen to Rabbi Shmuley go here.

Here is my list of five things men should know about what a woman wants. I would love it if you would make a list, on your blog or in the comments.

1. I want to be a superhero. I want to save the world but, in case that doesn't work out I am willing to save a kitten, or a baby, or a man who needs his laundry done. I am willing to go without sleep, food, or any sort of comfort in order to save someone else. It just feels good to be a superhero.
   
   
2. I want to be the boss. I really don't like to be told what to do. Ask me to do something and I will always say yes, see above. Tell me to do something and I wont do it even if I want to do it.
   
   
3. I don't like advice. I love to give advice, just don't give me advice. See above. Feels like you are telling me what to do.
   
   
4. I want to create a peaceful environment for our family. I want the house clean, the food to be healthy and home cooked, the environment to be safe, the kids to be disciplined and loved, to have many friends who love us and are there for us. It is just that it is all so much and I sometimes bite off more than I can chew. A little help would be GREAT.
   
   
5. I don't want to be your mom. Please don't make me your moral compass. I want to be able to be fun and bad, not to be the one who always says no.

Ok friends, what about you. What do you wish that men either yours or men in general would understand about women.