Saturday, September 09, 2006

Smile

Lily and I spend our week days with a pretty set routine. Everyday we venture out of the house at around the same time. We have a handful of playgrounds near our home and even more if we want to get in the car. We usually spend a couple of hours every morning running around. This helps Lily burn off all that energy and the sunshine and a little social interaction is good for both of us.

Most days we run into the same people. The same kids, the same moms, we all have the same idea. There is one mom, she is an at home day care provider and she doesn't like me. Whatever. She is very nice to everyone else, but she wont even say hello to me. After six months of being ignored and snubbed I have gotten over being offended and now I do my best to upset her. I actually enjoy making her face red. I will come to the playground and sit right next to her and say, good morning. I smile and ignore the fact that she doesn't respond to me. I talk about the weather and such like we are best friends. For some reason she hates me so much that my close proximity offends her to the point that she becomes physically flustered. So much fun.

I didn't know the reason she hated me so much, until recently. We have never had a conversation, I have never met her at any other place, just the playground. So why does she hate me? Must be my good looks. I accidentally overheard her having a conversation about me the other day. I came up to the playground behind her and she was carrying on a conversation about me, oops. She hates me because I smile too much. I am serious. She want to "smack that smile right off my face". What is up with that?

After overhearing this juicy gossip, I have been noticing that I do indeed smile more than other people. I have noticed that most people do not smile at all. I usually smile and say hello to people. Most people will say hello without a smile. I also noticed that children also do not smile. My Lily, she is always smiling and laughing. People usually react and tell me she is such a happy girl. I tell them they are crazy she is a defiant little fit thrower. They shake their heads at me because she is giggling her head off. You all know that I complain about Miss Lily and her fits pretty constantly since she has been born. Yet, what I didn't realize is she is 95% sunshine and giggles.

What about you? Do you smile throughout the day? Do you smile when you say hello or good morning to people? Do you smile at your family? Do people who smile a lot annoy you?

I am thinking of buying the nice lady at the playground who hates me one of those happy face balloons, or happy face stickers for all the little kiddies she cares for. She will probably have a coronary and die on the spot. He he. Don't hate me because I am happy!

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Okay, that made me smile and giggle too! Apparently I don't smile all the time, even if I am happy. I get asked often if something is wrong or am I mad. It is just my look. If I try to smile, like when posing for a picture I feel like a dork. My natural smile just happens. So just because I am not smiling at the moment does not mean I am to happy. Maybe your smile needs to rub off on me, maybe it needs to rub off on that lady too! :) Keep smiling it makes everyone else wonder what your up to!

meno said...

This lady has issues. I applaud your campaign to drive her crazy with kindness. Keep it up. I think giving each of her charges a sheet of smiley face stickers to plaster all over is an inspired idea. And get her a sheet of Oscar the grouch stickers.

I usually smile, especially if a am meeting the same people every morning.

laura capello said...

Yikes, who'd want a person who not only doesn't smile, but down't like smiles at all, watching their children?

I smille all the time. And I laugh at everything too.

Dixie said...

You know that is sick. It's sick to dislike someone because they smile! How sad and sick her heart must be if she can't bear outward signs of happiness.

I'm a smiler too. I don't even have a particularly good smile and I still do it.

I'm glad you're raising Lily to be a smiler too!

Anonymous said...

Yes! I am one of life's smilers. It's almost compulsive.

You use the same tactic I always have in the workplace when confronted by a grumpy, nasty boss who wants to be feared and revered. I'm always really JOLLY to people like that and they hate it. Their eyes narrow with suspicion and mistrust.

Do keep it up with this grumpy lady. Just brilliant.

Carolie said...

Hurray for your smiles! People tend to smile back when I smile at them. The morning guard at the base greets me by name when I drive in to drop of Fearless Husband, because, as she puts it, "I'm her only smile every morning." But in high school, my best friend's mother HATED me, and I couldn't figure out why. Turned out she mistrusted my smiles, and thought I was an "Eddie Haskell" type. Her loss!

So...smiles to you, from one end of Japan to the other!

Anonymous said...

"She hates me because I smile too much."

Honey, you should wear this statement like a badge of honor.

And for the record? I adore you because you smile so much. Fill the happy face balloon with *that* and tell the curmudgeon to suck on it a while.